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even split J & P

by Guest on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 12:32am | in ENFJ

I have taken this test twice and got different results. I just The Keirsey Temperament Sorter and was a definitive ENF,but equally split between J and P. The profile of the ENFJ was spot on, whereas I didnt identify with parts of ENFP. So... is that the tie breaker?


Last comment on 09/29/2016 - 10:40am

Fellow INTJs, I need your help to guide me in the right direction

by Maria_kj on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 6:15pm | in INTJ


I'm a young INTJ with no idea what to do with my life. I have many interests, but few passions, and I don't know what to study..

I went to theater high school, and then on to become a petty officer in the Navy. My engagement ends in summer, and I don't think I want to prolong it..

My grades are good, so most doors are open to me, but deadlines to apply are creeping...


Last comment on 03/03/2016 - 5:14pm


by Guest on Sunday, December 27, 2015 - 3:41pm | in ENTP

My girlfriend is an ISTJ. She's great. Very reliable, loyal and kind. But somehow, I'm looking for something more than what we have. I'm afraid we would end up unhappy. What should we do?


Last comment on 04/27/2018 - 6:01am


by Guest on Sunday, December 27, 2015 - 3:37pm | in ISTJ

My girlfriend is an ISTJ. She's great. Very reliable, loyal and kind. But somehow, I'm looking for something more than what we have. I'm afraid we would end up unhappy. What should we do?


Last comment on 12/30/2015 - 10:25pm

Carrer path help for INFP

by Guest on Wednesday, December 23, 2015 - 7:23pm | in INFP


Another INFP on board. I have one question: Are there any books/courses/whatever available which are dealing with how to truly fullfil our career paths and reach our potentials as INFPs?


Last comment on 03/01/2016 - 8:34pm

Success without human connection.

by Guest on Sunday, December 13, 2015 - 8:30am | in INTJ

So apparently I am a INTJ; I've been extremely successful in everything I've ever put my mind to although human connection I seem to have trouble with.
I am relatively monotone when it comes to expressing my feelings towards others and that seems to be a problem for some people, especially when it comes to romantic type relationships and I've been told by multiple people that I am "cold...


Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 6:53pm

Multiple types

by Cwbrogdon on Thursday, December 3, 2015 - 6:11pm | in ISTJ

My original test result was ISTJ-A Inspector, which I don't think this is 100% me. So I took the rest of the free test. I scored 62.5% as Mastermind, 61.2% Commander, 60.7% Supervisor & 57.4% Inspector. So I'm a little confused to say the least & also very interested in this. Has anyone else had these same issues? I've taken all of these test multiple times just to see if the results...


Last comment on 12/11/2015 - 4:36am

Being used as a sounding board

by Guest on Monday, November 30, 2015 - 4:57am | in INFJ

I can tolerate this with friends I choose, but now I've been chosen by someone who just wants to use me as a sounding board - is there a kind way to politely disengage with this person who I run into regularly in a community setting?


Last comment on 11/30/2015 - 4:57am

Any experienced and successful INFJ & ESTP love relationships?

by Guest on Sunday, November 29, 2015 - 8:23pm | in ESTP

Just curious since the consensus seems to be split as to whether or not this is a good match.


Last comment on 11/29/2015 - 8:23pm

INFJ confused by ENTP guy

by Guest on Sunday, November 29, 2015 - 6:48pm | in ENTP

Months ago I met an ENTP and he was Very taken by me, flirted and acted as if he couldn't believe the conversation. Kept shaking his head and saying first impressions are SO very important. But hes in another relationship and told me hes trying still to make that work. After months of sporadic very personal emails & coffee together I asked for space. I was starting to really care for him....


Last comment on 12/03/2016 - 2:49am

INTJ (lack)

by sammydoh on Saturday, November 28, 2015 - 5:05am | in INTJ

So, apparently INTJs make up like 2% of the population. Anybody out there?


Last comment on 05/05/2017 - 8:06pm


by sammydoh on Wednesday, November 25, 2015 - 11:10pm | in INTJ

Can you explain the nuances of human connection to me? I am extremely confused. I just asked my friend if he had wiped his shoes and washed his clothes before coming into my room, followed by a blunt "what took you so long" and he just stormed out. Is this some kind of ESFP thing?



Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 8:14pm


by sammydoh on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 - 8:29pm | in INTJ

OK, so in LA class I was assigned the question "Should Charlie Gordon from Flowers for Algernon have had the operation to increase his intelligence?"

Here is what I've got:

Please share your thoughts.


Last comment on 11/24/2015 - 8:29pm

What advice do you have for an INTJ thinking of retirement; other than financial?

by Guest on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 - 7:06pm | in INTJ

The subject states the question. When retiring one needs to think of three areas beyond the financial question, these include (1) Physical Activities, (2) Social Connections, and (3) Mental Stimulus. In my opinion, an INTJ will have no problem with #3 and #1, but I suspect an INTJ may have difficulties with #2. Any thoughts? Or suggestions?


Last comment on 12/05/2015 - 11:12pm

Is there a ENFP club

by Guest on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 8:02am | in ENFP

Is there like a club where ENFPs can meet up in the UK ?


Last comment on 06/17/2016 - 3:53pm

professional organizing

by lindaselby521 on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 2:20am | in INTJ

Which personality type is suitable for becoming a certified professional organizer? Would it be good for an INTJ?


Last comment on 01/15/2016 - 6:58pm

please help with a new career

by lindaselby521 on Saturday, November 21, 2015 - 1:39am | in INTJ

I am a 42 year old INTJ woman who needs a new career. I stupidly got a BA in Anthropology and then a Muliple Subjects teaching credential. Teaching elementary school was too stressful in terms of being around tons of kids and having to control their behavior. I was constantly sick, and not from their germs. I want to do something appropriate for my personality type now, but I'm so old!...


Last comment on 12/28/2015 - 4:59pm

Hi ENTPs, I am completely lost I need some guidance please.

by Guest on Sunday, November 8, 2015 - 10:50pm | in ENTP

Hi there,

I am a filmmaker for indie films and I work aside as waitress in restaurants only because, making movies don't pay yet and as a waitress I know I won't have to deal with homework and assignments.
The problem is that I read people's personality extremely well - which helps me knowing if I want this or this person in my circle of friends - however, as soon as I meet...


Last comment on 11/14/2015 - 11:42pm

Being an INTJ parent

by Guest on Friday, November 6, 2015 - 2:15pm | in INTJ

When I gave birth to my son eleven years ago, little did I know how illogical and yet wonderfully imperfect my life would become. (Don't be fooled it's still quite organized and efficient as possible ;) )
I was scared that I had to take care of this little life that would not be able to verbalize his needs, play games I really didn't get but played along anyway. Many a nights of " I...


Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 2:52am

Existential Depression

by Guest on Friday, November 6, 2015 - 7:30am | in INTJ

Seeking feedback about this obstacle from INTJ's (it is interfering with my projects).


Last comment on 11/10/2015 - 3:17am