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INFP, INFJ, or something else?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 21, 2016 - 7:53am

Im so confused. Im a 24 yr old guy and Ive tested multiple times and have gotten many different results but the main four are INFP, INTP, ENFP, and INFJ. I did research and tried to make sense of it. Heres what i found. Im 100% introvert and dont like getting involved in a lot of meaningless relationships so that rules out the ENFP. I do think to myself a lot and got confused because i thought...

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/18/2018 - 10:12pm

My new career as an INFJ

by Moggzy on Monday, November 21, 2016 - 9:00am

Hi, this is my first post. Im a 28 yr male who has been a painter and decorator by trade for almost ten years and have now moved on to working for a company with over 200 employees that paint massive high rise construction. In the last 9months I have been asked and I accepted the role of Work Place Health and Safety Officer. I get paid more and the boreing mind numbing workload is over....

4 Comments | Last comment on 03/24/2019 - 1:33am


by Lae on Tuesday, November 15, 2016 - 9:56am

Hi! I am new here, and it cannot define whether I am a Judger or a Perceiver, a Thinker or Feeler. Most other sites say I am an INFJ, so I'd say I am an INFJ. What do you think?

2 Comments | Last comment on 11/30/2016 - 7:51pm

Compatible with INFJ

by Guest on Wednesday, November 2, 2016 - 1:03pm

Hi I have had bad luck so far in the relationship department. My perfect match according to this site is an INFJ. I am in my early 50's and athletic. I am hoping to meet someone my age to start a friendship with potential for a relationship.

2 Comments | Last comment on 03/09/2017 - 1:06pm

Lost and confused without the slightest idea of how/where to start

by Guest on Saturday, October 29, 2016 - 8:21pm

Hi All!

So i'm a full blown INFJ and i'm just going to get straight to the point (hopefully haha). I graduated from college with a Bachelor's in European History, moved to Budapest, Hungary to teach english (kind of liked it, but I had to be "on" all the time, which drained me and also the pay was terrible), then i started a position in telesales that i hated and only lasted 7 months....

3 Comments | Last comment on 10/30/2016 - 3:38pm

INFJ relationship compatibility with ENFP

by mven7 on Tuesday, October 25, 2016 - 1:30am

Hey, I'm an INFJ and during the summer at work we studied MBIT and all. Fast forward through the summer, an ENFP took interest in me. We had been friends for a while, on and off type deal. It was rumored from trusted friends that he had liked me on and off, but honestly he had been in and out of so many relationships. Like a lot. I even met my best friend through him, because he had dated her...

0 Comments | Last comment on 10/25/2016 - 1:30am

career decision

by Guest on Tuesday, September 13, 2016 - 9:36pm

ANy INFJs out there that have had a hard time choosing a career like me? After years of research, I've narrowed it down to two: school counseling or clinical psychology. ANy insight is welcome

7 Comments | Last comment on 04/02/2017 - 9:52pm

Are there certain MBTI types that are more likely to habitually print using all capital letters?

by INFJ1961 on Wednesday, September 7, 2016 - 6:42pm

For quite a few years now, I've had a tendency to write in all capital letters, making the first letter of any word that would normally be capitalized larger than the rest. What led me to this is that I saw someone else doing it, and I liked it.

With the onset of computers in homes and workplaces, I did a lot less handwriting. I do very little corresponding outside of the digital...

2 Comments | Last comment on 07/29/2017 - 8:22pm

I am last!

by suavecoolwave on Thursday, September 1, 2016 - 5:01am

I just found out last week that indeed I am not crazy, and nothing is wrong with me.
For the longest time I sensed that I was different. It bothered me that I "could read" people's feelings/emotions and that
it affected me. It bothered me that I couldn't stand the mindless, silly chats of people around me. And above all, I always tried to seek solitude. It felt good to be alone...

6 Comments | Last comment on 09/08/2016 - 5:43pm

I'd like to clarify Some things about the way i see mbti

by tommytardif1 on Monday, August 29, 2016 - 12:59am

First of all

Some people(probably sensors) see me as if i have the head in the cloud because i have high goals and say things that appear to be impossible but actually when we look at all the things that have been made by great people were at first seen as impossible

where i'm unsure is if i'm a sensor or an intuit, because i work hard to achieve all the things others might see...

3 Comments | Last comment on 10/28/2016 - 9:11pm

Personality INFJ

by Guest on Monday, August 22, 2016 - 12:21pm

I'm an infj female. have you any recommandations for Hobbies and where i can find friends, they understand me.
I ve dissimulated me my whole life, but i dont like any more to be not the right "ego".
thanks a lot for answers.

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/15/2017 - 5:56pm

Ideal Match for Female INFJ?

by Guest on Friday, August 19, 2016 - 7:56pm

I've read lots of different matches, to me it seems according to those my best match is either ENTP or ENFP. I'm more of a sensitive INFJ. What are your experiences and the types you seem to get along best with?

3 Comments | Last comment on 08/29/2018 - 11:03pm

some one to talk to for the heck of it.

by Guest on Friday, August 19, 2016 - 7:38pm

I am a 40 year old woman, 5'6" 182 lbs Brunet w blue eyes.
I am under the sign of Libra but was raised by a Leo.
Really made my childhood rough on that tune.
I am a mother of one child.
I love art,a wide variety of music,camping,fishing,crabbing but do not enjoy hunting, though I do enjoy rock hunting.
I am quite shy but very affectionate.
I am not looking...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/31/2016 - 5:48am

My ideal love match is an INFJ male

by annienstevenson on Wednesday, August 17, 2016 - 8:23pm

I have had bad luck in the "love compartment" of my life and would like to explore whether, or not, I could meet someone who could actually be compatible with me without having to awkwardly start conversations with people

I mean, why not -right?

(I am a female)

4 Comments | Last comment on 08/20/2016 - 7:41am

Love and the Male INFJ

by INFJ1961 on Thursday, August 4, 2016 - 2:15pm

INFJ - the rarest of types.

Male INFJ's - even rarer.

Gay male INFJ's - rarer still. And my ideal match.

Now I have an answer to the question, "how is it you're still single???"

5 Comments | Last comment on 04/05/2019 - 2:37pm

Thinking about Therapy - Do I have PTSD?

by tahmida.chowdhury on Wednesday, June 29, 2016 - 9:30am

INFJ - Female

I have a huge interest in human nature and it's the main reason I am here. I have dealt with my emotions for almost over a decade.

I feel that I have intense sadness at times. I would curl myself in a corner and let the episode pass. The normal triggers are either depressive flashbacks or I am hurt by someone. And there is a correlation with stress and thoughts...

3 Comments | Last comment on 07/17/2016 - 11:54pm

INFJ's who have one or more learning disabilities

by eaglerising2 on Monday, June 27, 2016 - 10:07am

I am an INFJ who came into this world with three learning disabilities: dyslexia, ADHD, and bipolar one disorder. I was born in the 1940's when little was know about these learning disabilities by either the medical or educational community. Consequently, I had to figure out what was "actually" wrong with me and how to effective deal with it. I was strongly motivated to find that out because...

9 Comments | Last comment on 06/07/2019 - 4:21pm

Does anyone else have a "quest for justice" that gets them in trouble?

by Guest on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 1:30pm

Hi, I have scored consistently INFJ for a number of years. I have always had this thing about "injustice" my entire life. When my parents told me that there was no Santa Claus I was so incensed that I told every kid in the neighborhood. Some kids tied me to a tree and threw rocks at me. Fortunately, a neighbor rescued me. Another story - My grandfather had a cabin on fiver where we vacationed...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 2:14am

Who s the murder?

by Guest on Friday, June 17, 2016 - 2:25pm

"The Locker Room Murder" by Stan Smith

The air was crisp that Sunday afternoon in late autumn.
The Mountdale College stadium was almost deserted. That week's game between the Rosinton Ravens and the Dryden Warriors, two semi-professional women's soccer teams, was not scheduled to start for another two hours.

The killer, however, had slipped in early and was waiting in the...

1 Comments | Last comment on 07/25/2016 - 12:01am

Infographic for INFJ

by Guest on Saturday, June 11, 2016 - 6:41pm

I found a very useful infographic for ENFP and ISTJ on Pinterest, linked to this site. Does anybody know if there is one for INFJ?

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/05/2016 - 3:56pm