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INFP, INFJ, or something else?

by Guest on Wednesday, December 21, 2016 - 7:53am

Im so confused. Im a 24 yr old guy and Ive tested multiple times and have gotten many different results but the main four are INFP, INTP, ENFP, and INFJ. I did research and tried to make sense of it. Heres what i found. Im 100% introvert and dont like getting involved in a lot of meaningless relationships so that rules out the ENFP. I do think to myself a lot and got confused because i thought...

7 Comments | Last comment on 02/18/2018 - 10:12pm

Can a Healer be good or great at sales?

by sharoncubero96 on Tuesday, December 13, 2016 - 2:35am

I understand that Sales Manager is not preferred line of work for Healers. But, I'm currently an independent consultant and our mentors tell us to care about the person and the money would follow. Are there any salespersons on this personality type? Any help, suggestions, advise on how to thrive as a INFP on the sales world? I need to make this work!

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/17/2017 - 11:35pm

Discovering my niche for business

by Guest on Friday, November 11, 2016 - 10:46pm

Greetings. I need a support group or mentor(s) to help me in my search for discovering my niche for a business. I'm so scatter brained and there are so many possibilities that I'm overwhelmed and don't know what to do. I fear failing, so I want to try to get it right the first time. I need a healthy balance of what I love to do, using what knowledge or interest I have, honing what skills I...

2 Comments | Last comment on 11/17/2016 - 10:58pm

healer, teacher

by Guest on Tuesday, October 11, 2016 - 12:42am

i took the test yesterday. i have been a RN for 36 years. 33years as a nurse investigator for abuse, neglect and exploitation. when i retired, a year ago, i was burned out from short staff and systems. i loved the work, it was an independent job and i helped many many people. i am finished being a nurse. even though i am 63 yrs old i still have a need to do something. i started to do more...

1 Comments | Last comment on 11/04/2016 - 2:11pm

New and happy

by Guest on Friday, September 2, 2016 - 8:55pm

Hi im new here but i love meeting new people and hearing the story's thay have. Lol call me gostalaska please thanks.

3 Comments | Last comment on 11/20/2016 - 12:25am

Anybody else?

by Guest on Friday, September 2, 2016 - 4:58pm

Anybody else want to be an astronomer?

2 Comments | Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 2:09pm

goal setting and struggling to achieve...

by Guest on Tuesday, August 23, 2016 - 12:17am

I'm struggling now, at age 55 with the aspects of not being "future" oriented, especially around finances. I know I have to change, and the goal setting strategies that coaches and successful entrepenuerus utilize just have no meaning for me. I'm not competitive at all, so winning challenges doesn't motivate me either.
What are or have any of you done to help put some desire or fire...

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/28/2016 - 7:38pm

Recommended Site for INFP and other introspective types: Brainpickings

by Guest on Sunday, August 21, 2016 - 6:02am

This is a free site but I gladly volunteer to pay a few dollars a month because I love it. But you don't have to.
It's called "An Inventory of the Meaningful Life" and they send a weekly blog post devoted topics about such things as:
--"An illustrated celebration of trailblazing women in science, Bertrand...

1 Comments | Last comment on 12/10/2016 - 2:27am

INFPs relationship with INTJs

by Amylee.beck on Wednesday, August 10, 2016 - 3:11pm

I'm going to post this topic in both the INFP and INTJ forums.

I'm an INFP woman and recently just started dating an INTJ man. I've read mixed things regarding the success of these two personality types together in a relationship and after recently ending a long and not so joyous marriage with an ESTJ I'm cautiously selecting my next partner based on, hopefully, better compatibility....

0 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 3:11pm


by dunkie22 on Sunday, August 7, 2016 - 11:14am

Finding out that I am an INFP and what that actually means has really helped save my life, my sanity. I have often been depressed and even attempted suicide once. I believe that a big part of this was the numerous aspects of my personality in conflict with my reality. A combination that I have found to be very painful is my perfectionism and my sensitivity to criticism. I have always known...

22 Comments | Last comment on 01/04/2017 - 3:08am

I Feel Too Much.

by dunkie22 on Thursday, August 4, 2016 - 3:04am

I found out a couple of months ago that I was an INFP. It all made sense. I had asked my therapist, "Why am I like the way I am?" I have trouble being around people. I have to hide and recharge after work or doing anything around groups. I go out of my way to avoid people. And watching the news or seeing something in the paper that is about people being hurt or mean to each other "hurts...

12 Comments | Last comment on 10/08/2018 - 9:23pm

4 possible personslity types intuitive or sensor

by carlacamacho2003 on Tuesday, July 26, 2016 - 11:58pm

Did anyone else get intuitive or sensor & 4 possible personality types?

2 Comments | Last comment on 08/10/2016 - 11:51pm


by Guest on Monday, July 18, 2016 - 12:53am

Do any other INFPs feel nervous when driving? I lack self confidence when operating a car, especially when I'm driving on an actual road with other cars and not just an empty parking lot. My dad told me that soon enough I'll feel like the car is my body - that I'll be able to sense where the car is effortlessly. I've been practicing for a few months and I don't feel this way. I am ill and I...

7 Comments | Last comment on 12/05/2016 - 10:52pm

unsure of all 4

by natenow on Saturday, July 16, 2016 - 9:15am

anyone else get an unsure on all 4 types ?

0 Comments | Last comment on 07/16/2016 - 9:15am

How to deal with socializing

by Guest on Monday, July 11, 2016 - 5:22pm

I can't remember a time that I was comfortable around other people. Besides my immediate family, I can barely talk around others, and I almost always feel awkward.

I find myself criticizing my words and actions later, and can get no relief. I want to be a genuinely friendly person, but I struggle with knowing what to say, how much to ask, how to answer, and how to act around other...

5 Comments | Last comment on 12/17/2017 - 11:44pm

INFP - values vs. friendship - deleted

by iNfpq on Friday, July 1, 2016 - 10:09am


4 Comments | Last comment on 07/09/2016 - 11:59am

Which am I

by career4linda on Saturday, June 25, 2016 - 4:12am

I took three different tests and the results say I am an INFP. I fit the description but I seem to fit the description for INFJ as well. The two seem quite similar. I am a very disorganized person but I prefer order and used to be able to achieve it when I younger. The percentages are close. INFP 64% INFJ 59% What do you think?

2 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 2:01am

Career change for 48yr old

by Guest on Friday, June 24, 2016 - 7:13pm

I am an accountant. I like working with numbers and generally like the work. I often find mistakes later in my work, correctible but it should be right the first time. I have found I don't like working for others all that well. I have thought about striking out on my own for the past 20 years but fear of failure and history of errors though minor, hold me back. I am smart but often feel...

3 Comments | Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 4:43pm

Why is it that there are more female INFPs?

by animefreak6 on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 11:12pm

When I opened up the email from this site about the mailing list it brought up a graph showing INFP Male and Female demographics. Apparently males are outnumbered 22-78, while this isn't a bad thing at all and in fact makes me feel more like a special little snowflake, it's something I find interesting.
I've found online many INFP males struggle with a sense of masculinity that I myself...

3 Comments | Last comment on 06/27/2016 - 12:21am

A job that will bring a meaning to my life

by linouchi19 on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 2:49pm

Hey I'm a 16 years old teenager girl and I recognize myself in every world said in this website. I'm looking for my path but I know that if I don't choose well my job, I'll never be happy in my hole life so I was asking myself what kind of job fits with INFPs? I don't see myself self as engineer in 20 years, I know I won't be happy this way, I need to do something that will bring a meaning to...

4 Comments | Last comment on 10/09/2016 - 4:59pm